No idea what you’re talking about. Barely remember any discussion on this.
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Are you saying Van Persie wasn’t forced out of the club by Wenger and the Board???
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How do you figure? Thank you for your advice Though I appreciate it.
The things you describe her as having done. Going round your mate’s house for example, and during lockdown ffs! And she seems like she craves attention. But like I said, we’re only hearing your side. I’ve never met the girl. Either way, you still need to move on. For both your sakes.
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Pboebi definitely isn’t the only one saying and thinking this.
You’re worshiping someone who doesn’t give a shit about you.
Also all this chat and companionship you’re giving her hasn’t worked yet and it will never work because it isn’t working. If anything it works against you.
He absolutely was.
Let’s forensically re-examine the circumstances of his departure at great length. Let’s give the people what they want.
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It’s already been cleared up. Wasn’t offered a contract. Forced out confirmed.
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You joke but Persie’s behaviour is exactly like a weird romantic irrational girl -
“He never tried hard to get me back. I expected him to fight for me.”
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This is the last thing anyone should be writing in this thread.
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My bad, @Gio please don’t read the above quoted sentence.
I’m truly confused. I feel jipped, the last few weeks I’ve been thinking fuck me Dave has some real precocious tastes for a 21 year old, and feeling a bit shit about 21 year old me’s tastes in comparison.
Just distance yourself from everything she does @Gio, as others have said if she wants you to know something she’ll tell you.
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Damn, AC. You’ve done a Columbo on me.
“Just one more thing…”
Let’s give @Gio a break and give him some credit.
If you recall his last breakup, he was inconsolable, he wanted to go to Canada by any means and all that.
With this one, he has managed to go a whole week without interacting with her and gave her space like she needed. She even pinged him to check on him.
Gio has certainly handled it as everyone suggested. He is just anxious and I am sure he will get over her in couple of months.
Good on you
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Through the roof now, takes me an hour to eat a bowl of cereal. It’s fucked.
@Cristo how did you get in contact with a therapist, I don’t know what avenues to go down?
I spoke to my GP about what kind of mental care options there were and she referred me to a psychiatrist, had a couple of sessions with him and then he referred me to a therapist specialising more in depression.
So I’d say your first starting point is your GP, I’d say you can probably get a referral online. Your local GP should have some kind online access to avoid people coming into the surgery, possibly a consultation via a chat function or over the phone.
Basically just tell them you think you need to see a mental healthcare specialist.
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A few tips if you’re anxious or depressed
Anxiety is your body’s response to potential threats, it generates adrenaline and other hormones. Going for long walks, runs or working out will help relieve anxiety because you’re using the anxiety up.
Depression is largely because you’re unhappy with your life and don’t know how to change it. Make a list or problems you have and ambitions you have. These could be physical goals - physique/fitness, career, a business idea, skills, learning or even hobbies.
Make sure you have daily, weekly, monthly and yearly goals. If you achieve a goal every day, every week and every month and begin to build towards a brighter future you will feel so much better about yourself.
Make sure these goals are self centric and not based on other romantic interests. Unless you set a goal to increase your female networking through POF, tinder etc etc. You shouldn’t focus on anyone of these initially but try to be friends with as many as possible until you find one you are truely compatible with.
Also find hobbies that bring you joy. Everything can fall apart around you but you’ll still be able to go and enjoy one of your hobbies when this happens.
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I don’t get the 21 joke at all now haha
He type he turned 21 on the year dot, ie the beggining of time.
Lol that one totally went over my head, never heard of dot being used that way 