One of the reason I love using Instagram is that these offended few don’t get as much leverage on insta as they do elsewhere.
It’s shallow but effective.
Great for travel planning as well
I am all concerned here about frostbites next month and there are girls who can pull off wearing shorts in cold.
How?
Kieran Gibbs would definitely be a downgrade.
Classic sun shitstirring here imo. No one would cheat on Ovie haha
Spot on mate. Life seemed so simple back before social media existed. I really miss the days of when nearly everyone used MSN to communicate with. Spent many hours and fun on that during school/college years. Customised avatars/backgrounds. Games, group chats all sorts 
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Msn was the best, non of this internet karma bullshit that breeds fake outrage. You would just go on and talk to your mates and usually make new friends through it.
Best part about it was you set aside a few hours in the evening for it and not spend every waking moment on it like we do on our phones.
The problem is kids these days are connected to everyone and no one, social media has warped their minds and no one knows how to communicate anymore unless it’s through memes.
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Ah the joy of the reappearance of a MSN buddy showing back up after months of them disappearing without a trace. 
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I can guarantee nobody pulls that stunt around here in January.
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That’s kind of how dates work innit lol
Incredible engineering. My main gripe is that it’s in such a fucking heinously unattractive car. I know it’s their branding etc but that front grill just kills the entire look of the car.
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Wow this match is shit. Spurs up 3 nil, wish United was on instead.
Damn this was for the PL match thread.
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Not lasting long our Roy now.
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Your a liar if you say no but I still like being married. Kids take away the chance anyway as your never going to have that single life revision.
Maybe different without any tbf.
And that brings me to the question: when do you truly decide to bring in a new human being into the mixture? I ask this as I’m 8+ months married and can’t even imagine myself building a family. Not due to financial or any similar issues, I’m doing fine, though not lavish or anything. just don’t feel I’m ready for a ‘family’ yet. Also, I don’t like children while the wife does. And I’m 32. Friends my age literally have grandchildrens ffs.
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It’s one of them things I’d advise you not to compromise on if it’s not what you want. Kids and I’ve got 3 good ones are a game changer in your relationship.
They will give you your highest highs and lowest lows at times.
Sometimes you don’t get enough honesty off people who have kids. They can be hard work in ways you don’t imagine. Don’t get me wrong they will give you some of the greatest pleasures that are truly humbling. I can only suggest you talk it through with her and your closest friends or family.
List your reasons on paper and address them to yourself and see where that leaves you for now.
No reason to feel any guilt if you don’t want children. They really aren’t for everyone. If you do great the rest will probably come easier as the decision will have been made in the right circumstances.
There’s no right or wrong answer here.
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I’ve never wanted to be single since I met my wife but I do have a kid now and he’s basically ruining my life.
As soon as I sit on the toilet I get “when are you going to be done shitting, I need you to watch the boy”. This used to be my time ffs.
It’s a much bigger adjustment than I was anticipating and this is 8 months in and I’m someone that really wanted kids, so if you have doubts then yeah, definitely don’t compromise!
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Lol, man I kinda feel bad for you. Iirc you already have made a post about feeling like you should be single, and now u mention that ur wife wants a family and u don’t hold the same aspirations. What moved you to get married exactly? Sorry not to be a dick but it seems to me maybe you’ve rushed into this one without thinking it over all that much?
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Seems women change more drastically than us men after marriage. My wife, whom I’ve known for the last 5 years, was pretty neutral about having a kid, but after you get married, women tend to start looking forward to starting a family more than us, or may be that’s just me. She’s not trying to force me or anything into it. It’s just she sounds a bit more serious when talking about kids than she did in the past is all.
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Spot on. That’s what i feel. Nothing right or wrong here. Whatever you do, just needs to feel right for yourself i guess.
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