Yup sounds like you have a chip on your shoulder
Wrong colour for your narrative
How?
Not really anyone can have a chip on their shoulder, or is specifically race based that notion, clearly racist if so
Inference of your racism because of your views 
And was it not entirely obvious what the answer was when right near the start the woman said âI dont know [where in Africa my family are from], they didnât leave any recordsâ
Why would you keep trying to find out where in Africa when the question has literally been very clearly answered.
She then goes on to ask here when she first came here, despite seconds before being told that the woman was born in this country.
Itâs a short exchange, yet there are two instances of her flat out not listening to the valid answers sheâs been given to her questions, yet some of you are here still trying to ascribe nothing but the best of intentions to her. If you are interested in someone you dont literally disregard the answers they give you to your questions multiple times in a very short exchange.
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Thatâs bs on her website she talks about her Nigerian heritage
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There will be a point all this crap will make people afraid to talk to black people. There was a report already saying that school kids are less likely to disagree with they black counter parts out of fear of backlash. The is the crap that is being cultivated in society at the moment. That woman is pathetic this whole situation is just pathetic attempt to mar the royal institution as racist. And all you pricks have a hard on for your racism and blacks people only matter when it fits your narrative
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Nobody mars them, they do a good job of it themselves.
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And you and your brother only ever seem to perceive things as racism when itâs a non black person on this forum disagreeing with your stance on racism. Anything else seems fair game though. Almost like you use accusations and implications of racism cynically when it suits you.
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Agree with this, I donât think sheâs 100% innocent but I think itâs more a silly old rich woman just wanting the answer sheâs looking for rather than anything racist.
The whole conversation just reads awkward from both sides and personally I wouldâve just given up asking even if I felt like the answer wasnât the detail I was looking for.
Clearly ngozi was either not willing to answer or wanting to make a point of her being born here, so I wouldâve just read the scene and thought fine letâs leave it. The old hag wasnât smart enough to do that but sheâd probably had a glass of Chardonnay and thought she was on top of the world.
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Her name has changed about 3 times in this thread 
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Iâve never called anyone racist that disagrees with me lol thatâs a straight lie.
Your bullshit stances when it comes to racism is nonsense, itâs either poor black person we should do better, or letâs help this poor blacks because they canât do anything.
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Lol Iâm pretty sure thatâs her name, Ngozi Fulani was what I remember reading yesterday
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Someone said Nzonzi? Is it Ngozi?
Either way, the interrogation was a bit lame.
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I clearly said, that I agreed what she had said was ignorant and that she went full Alan partridge but I certainly didnât say that she had nothing but the best of intentions to her.
I know the poll you made about: âHave you ever moved a strangers hair to see a name badge,â was not to be taken too seriously but it would be interesting to know how many people on here would be offended and made to feel uncomfortable, if an 83 old woman moved their hair to see a name badge.
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What if youâre Pep Guardiola?
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Or me? 
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The thing is that I say you guys racist because the way you guys look down on black people is mind boggling. The bigotry of low expectations on the black community is maddening. What you would deem wrong or not worth talking about for whites is a total different conversation for blacks. If a white woman went to a function and a black w woman moved her hair to see her name. No one would bat an eyelid or if the old black lady asked her where she was from again nothing would be said. Why is not the same for black people? Are black people so insecure about they position in life that we need positive reinforcement all the time? Is she ashamed of being African decent? Is being English superior to being Nigerian?
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If the old white lady had simply asked her where she is from I wouldnât have said anything.
The woman apparently represents a charity for African and Carribbean women and was wearing some sort of traditional African clothing, I think itâs perfectly understandable within that context to enquire about the personâs African heritage. Iâd say itâs pretty much a relevant question, in fact.
As I think my posts make it very clear, I only said the questioning became rude and tactless after a certain point, that point being when she was given a clear answer.
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