I just don’t understand why trans rights takes up such a huge amount of attention in the media and politically. Trans people are such a tiny minority that this discussion really takes up a disproportionate amount of air time, it really shouldn’t get this much attention.
I also don’t understand why so many people have such a bee in their bonnet about trans people and trans rights. Who cares if someone identifies as a man or a woman, just leave them alone, they get enough of a hard time as it is. Live and let live ffs.
Now where I might catch some flack for what is potentially a fairly boomerish opinion is that I kind of have trans people split up into trans people that I believe are actually legit and should be treated as women and trans people who I don’t think should be treated as women.
If you’re a MtF person to who has had full top and bottom surgeries with FFS then I absolutely 100% believe that you are now a woman, and that you should absolutely be treated as a woman and have all the same rights - use the ladies room, new passport, new birth certificate, go to female prisons, play women’s sports etc, the whole nine yards. For all intents and purposes, you are now a woman and I will happily believe so. For that matter, I’m not even really bothered if you tell anyone you used to be a man and personally don’t feel that they should ever be expected to do so - even with sexual partners, except for maybe in circumstances where there is talk of wanting to have children etc.
What I am a bit more sceptical of are the people that claim to identify as women but “only” cross dress or “only” get top surgery and don’t do bottom surgery. For me, with these men, it seems like there is more of an element of getting their rocks off sexually by cross-dressing or being fetishized by other men as “lady boys/shemales” and I don’t believe they should have the same legal recognition as women or be allowed to change their gender/sex legally. I don’t take them as seriously as full MtF transitioners.
Now I know that’s perhaps a bit conservative of me, and I’m sure there are plenty of activists and psychologists out there that may have very compelling arguments for why I’m wrong but I feel like this is a pretty good way to draw the line in terms of who gets to actually legally identify as women.
The ultimate symbol of your physical manhood is your penis, testicles and scrotum - I can’t see how someone can fully identify as a woman with male genitalia that they could potentially use on women, either consensually or non-consensually.
Anyway like I said, ultimately I don’t have a problem with trans people at all and I’m more than happy to let them live their lives but I definitely view different trans-people different dependent on how far in their transitioning they have gone or intend to go.
As for JK Rowling, I have no idea why she’s decided to double down on this so much but I guess it’s her choice and up to her.