Oh ye of little faith 
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Listen just because something doesnât fit in your moral framework doesnât mean that it doesnât happen, your thinking is the height of self delusion where your moral framework is what everyone should live up to, although itâs void of real world experience and completely ideological.
Grow up and stop being a child.
Youâre allowed to be insulted, seemingly.
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If you can consider a white man complimenting her skin colour as chocolate is racist you donât speak to many black women period.
⌠yeah this was a dumb comment mate as youâre about to see
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Funny you say that I sent the story to my girlfriend this morning and she was disgusted by the comment. And absolutely hates the use of the word chocolate
Again feelings a subjective are they notâŚ. My sister ex partner called her chocolate when they met up had four kids, chocolate queen was her pet name.
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How about you respect the feelings of the person affected here?
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The mother of daughter called me her chocolate man, my current jokes about it now, should accuse them of racism??
No I donât need to respect a persons feelings, as feelings change depending a multitude of variables
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Are you trying to say I am a house negro???
Iâm saying you always defend racists. Itâs wierd.
Thatâs not racism is perceived racism there is big difference, she said she felt like doesnât mean it is.
What that does water down what racism is and makes it harder to interact with other none black people, as any interaction that is perceived as racist can get you in to trouble.
This is the problem with you. Absolutely no empathy. The world works exactly how you think it does and thatâs that. Itâs sad.
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It wasnât racist. It was offensive. And she had a right to be offended by it.
Taking offence is fine, but to label it racist is another matter.
I donât think he was racist. And nor does my partner. But he absolutely used race as part of his harassment and thatâs why he got slapped with racially charged sexual harassment which is an adequate charge for what he did.
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Bro come on 
Iâm all for calling out over the top bs when it comes to the race card being overplayed but those comments are not just compliments, theyâre rude and certainly bordering on racist. Equally a lot of girls may like that kind of comment but a risky one to make.
Itâs a thing weâre others donât mind while other do, itâs perspective.
I am sure had the dude been famous 10-10 chad she wouldnât say yeah I felt that way.