I’ve never wanted to be single since I met my wife but I do have a kid now and he’s basically ruining my life.
As soon as I sit on the toilet I get “when are you going to be done shitting, I need you to watch the boy”. This used to be my time ffs.
It’s a much bigger adjustment than I was anticipating and this is 8 months in and I’m someone that really wanted kids, so if you have doubts then yeah, definitely don’t compromise!