I’ve been super busy these days and totally out of the loop and don’t even know exactly what this debate is all about. My general view on this kind of thing though is a really big concern that we are depriving sexuality of its non verbal element. Almost everyone that’s ever lived has initiated a first sexual contact without asking permission first. I honestly don’t see what’s wrong with making some kind of sexual move, the other person not liking it, and then just leaving it there. In my mind it’s only a concern if you do something a) illegal, or b) if an individual trespasses beyond a clear and definitive no thanks / or when a degree of threat is used to obtain something. Otherwise can’t we just be adults.
By the way, I wasn’t particularly disagreeing with your point, I just latched onto the last post on the subject.