Kind words from Morris to long time forum rival Trion now that is enough to set me off So much love around here lately
So Trion, you still havenât mentioned how long this relationship had been going when this all happened.
Being a long distance, i guess any measure of time will pale compared to usual relationship.
We known each other for 7 years and romantically involved since Nov 2015.
I ended it in Marâ16 between because my career was fucking me up and i didnât want to waste her time. Advised her that she would be better off with someone more stable as i was a mess. But she stuck by and we got back in couple of months.
Job changed, situation improved. We started meeting every month since September.
I know you lot say bullet dodged but i knew about her mood swings and grumpiness & was ready to take it on.
Didnât know i would falter at first event of it.
Yeah thatâs a long time to know someone just to have them cut you out of their lives like that. Exactly how old are you guys because maturity levels play a part in this as well.
Youâre like a nosy aul one.
Late 20s.
I dunno what that means but I sympathize with him because I had a really difficult patch like that too and I had a lot of people to vent to. I know from experience it helps a lot.
Have you had sex with her @Trion?
Fuck this joker above, if weâre getting nosey Iâm asking the questions that matter.
Yes.
And thatâs how all the good work by other posters went to shit.
Now i want her back.
Will call her right away.
Have a wank instead, as soon as youâre done youâll be glad you didnât call.
The fog of horniness can cause men to do regrettable things.
tbf wanking to a girlfriend or ex (especially if any eye tears are involved) is pretty weird.
As Larry David once said to his wife, andâdespite his conflicting rootsâas Iâm sure @CunningLinguist will agree, ânah, you donât want any part of that. I wouldnât defile like you that.â
Who said he should wank over his ex?
Ahh, fair point. Sorry Jake pal. Iâve slept about 6 hrs in the last 96 and and I think I need to go to the hospital, but in the spirit of defiance that Abou Diaby taught me, I think Iâll just carry on. But what I mean to say is forgive me for the poor reading comprehension!
Wtf you talking about. Abou ALWAYS went to the hospital.
Bah, whatever. The point is the manâs a fucking inspiration.
Someone send me a link to that post Maxi made about how Wenger changed his life, I want to plagarise it replacing his and Wengerâs with me and Abouâs.
This is the motherfucking truth and the best piece of advice youâd ever get on the matter.
When I broke up with my ex a few years ago I realised the only time I missed her was when I was horny lol.
Didnât take me long to get over her mind you though lol.
Men
Basically, vibrators work out cheaper and less hassle in the long run Thanks for the heads up, sex ed. class
You need more coffee
Hang in there Trion. I know what you mean by the dating scene being more difficult in India, I too had pangs after breaking up with my first girlfriend, wondering if I would ever find another girl with whom I could click so well in such a conservative society. What Iâve realised is that as long as youâre living in one of the bigger cities, there really are plenty of cool, interesting women on the scene in India. The end of a relationship does not have to mean the end of all romance for you. Just be strong, focus on things you enjoy doing, and work on yourself. I firmly believe you have to be completely good on your own before you can be ready or really able to let someone else come in and become an important part of your life.